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WHY AM I NOT WINNING?

  • Writer: Nyjuwon
    Nyjuwon
  • Jan 8, 2021
  • 2 min read

Hey you! Yeah you, you ever felt like no one cared about you? You ever felt like

everyone is winning and you are constantly losing? How about feeling like your life is

falling apart and you are trying to do everything you can to piece it back together?

Here's a news flash for you....MOST OF ALL OF US ARE IN THAT SAME PLACE OR HAVE

BEEN THERE!


It's a normal part of life. You may not understand why you are going through what you

are going through at the time, but there will come a time in your life that you will look

back on a particular situation and say to yourself, “Now I see why I went through that”.

Trust me, it happens to all of us. If you think you are excluded, think again. You

see..everyone has their own path in life. It may look like all of your family and friends

are racing past you and excelling at lighting speed, but truth is they are simply fulfilling

their path in life. Just because someone maybe excelling faster than you doesn't mean

that you are losing. It just means that you are not there yet in your path of life! You are

probably excelling at something they think they are losing at. Listen to me good

here....you are always winning! No matter what you do in life, if you are able to wake

up, you are winning, if you are able to run to the fridge in grab a coke, you are winning,

if you have a job, you are winning. I'm sure by now you get my point! Learn to be

grateful for the little things in life. Whether it's a small achievement, or if it's reaching a

long term goal, you are winning!

Don't ever think negative about yourself. Always tell yourself positive things even if you don't believe them. You will begin to change your thinking. You'll start to notice yourself getting more secure and confident in yourself. But first things first, you must love yourself! If you don't love yourself, you'll become vulnerable to the opinion of others about you. I always tell people, "if you don't like something about yourself and you are able to change it, change it!" If not, then it is a unique feature that you have and that should make you feel special. Don't let flaws make you feel low because no one is flawless. Its OK to make mistakes as long as you learn from them. YOU ARE NOT A MISTAKE! I can't stress that enough! You are a miracle in the making and I know that one day you will find your purpose in life. Always remember that you can do anything you put your mind to! There is no limit. BE INSPIRED.

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